What to do if you're in a relationship and someone hasn't called you in a week?Any advice?

I have been seeing this guy for about a year. The thing is he has lost his job and I haven't heard from him in a week. I call and he doesnt return any of my phone calls. He has done this before when he lost a seperate job I didnt hear from him. Then he comes back around apologizing and I forgive.I want to be with him but these disappearing acts is getting to me.What to do if you're in a relationship and someone hasn't called you in a week?Any advice?
Well for one I'm not sure what you are asking -but here goes.





I don't think this guy appreciates how much you care for him and that it isn't much to ask for to know what he's up to. Seems to me You are concerned and want to be reassured he will be ok, or if he needs help then you can try. But he cuts you off, doesn't give you the opportunity to help or know what he's doing during this time. Which is not fine in any shape way or form. Yes ok do what you want you don't have to tell me everything, but you do have to have some courtesy and at least let me know your happy and things are fine and that we'll be hangin together again and getting close again after you get another job-but he's not even doing this. I suppose in some eyes its no big deal because life throws you some curve balls but your in a relationship so you work it out. But this isn't a real relationship, It's a relationship out of his convenience.





I'd back off and let him do what he wants. He needs a wake up call. You guys are supposed to be in a relationship-that doesn't mean a pause or maybe about it. So this guy needs to learn that it doesnt matter about the job soo much but that he cares for you enough to at least return your calls.





He's creating trust issues unecessarily. How can you trust someone who does this? Its not as if they have done anything incriminating but it creates doubts that were'nt there before. Talk to him and tell him that this cut off thing he does isn't going to work. At least not to his conveniance. You both need a compromise-he may need space and time to get his stuff together-so he cuts you off in order to be able to focus himself on getting another job, but if this is the case then he needs to explain. But ask him why does do that-what makes him think its allright. Its nothing to blow up about-but is something to be concerned about.





Also-don't let him jerk you around so much-back off too. If these are his terms then so be it. Honestly he'll get his head out his *** eventually. But right now-its just about an annoying pin prick that he's being careless like this-and the thing is you care and it annoys you that he can't give you the same courtesy. If this is the case, I suggest giving him a dose of his own medicine after trying to talk it out and convey that his way of things isnt a way that works with the two of you. Forgive him but don't let him know it until he gets that just because you forgive makes his actions ok.





Hope that helps! Good Luck! What to do if you're in a relationship and someone hasn't called you in a week?Any advice?
If he just lost his job maybe he is embarrassed and doesn't want to talk to anyone right now. Give him a little more time %26amp; then call. When you think you're through, leave a message that you are finished and that if he can't share his downs with you that you don't need him %26amp; that you are going to move on. Then don't answer his calls when he comes crawling back weeks later. He can't choose when he wants you in his life %26amp; when he doesn't. It's all or nothing. Respect yourself and don't put up with it. Good Luck
Apparently when he gets depressed or stressed he just wants to be left alone. However this isn't fair to you at all. When he does call you back and everything is settled and he isn't stressed out anymore talk to him and ask him why he does that and next time he does it he needs to at least tell you so you dont worry about him. If he isn't considerate enough to do that for you dump him
If he's not calling you because he's depressed, he needs time alone to work through it. If it bothers you that much, you need to end it. If you can handle not hearing from him, then let him come back to you when he's ready.
well.. give him some time to calm down and call u back.. and then sit him down and explain to him that u accepted it twice and the third time it wont be accepted... be firm, he should get the point that u wont tolerate such behavior.
It's time to move on,disappearing acts can mean he's seeing someone else.or maybe he's looking for a job and he's completely focused on that,but that's not a good enough reason to get go a wall........
And what would it be like if you two were married with kids? He'd just up and disappear and hope that you would all forgive and forget? Move on... you love him, but he needs to grow up.
After a year in a relationship things are considered serious. If he doesn't care enough to at least let you know he's gonna fall off the face of the earth for awhile then I question how much he really cares.